Silence is Golden

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Recently, I came across an interesting article written by Ann-Maree Moodie in an innovative Australian magazine called FastThinking. The article had a title called Leave me Alone so it sure got my attention! The author talks about how ironic our state of lives have become. On the one hand, we strive to create new technological gadgets and electronic products, which is supposed to help make our daily lives easier.


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Unfortunately, items such as mobile/cell phones, e-mail, electronic organizers and the like also serves to create distractions and intrusions on any quiet time that we may obtain on a given day. She also made a good point, that even when you are on a plane and flying at high altitude, it is now possible to reach you via e-mail or phone, so you don't even get any quiet time while flying anymore! The article also goes deeper to examine studies that have been done by cognitive theorists on idea creation.

However, the issue that the author had raised about the importance of silence and the influence it has on the formation of ideas helped me to look at my own environment and the distractions that I face on a daily basis.

Take for example at work, I'm expected to find new solutions and ideas that can be incorporated to our existing software system. But, during the course of the day I will receive a huge amount of e-mails (sometimes it feels like an insurmountable amount of e-mails; currently, I'm still trying to clear my inbox as I have a lot of follow-up items that have yet to be actioned!), then there's the phone calls, skype messages/calls, meetings (and more meetings) and generally people just coming up to me to discuss things. With all these distractions, I do wonder how I find the time to come up with practical solutions, let alone coming up with innovative ideas? To be honest, it is very hard with all these constant distractions (and I know these are just part of life at work). I'm just wondering how I can be more constructive and innovative in the face of these daily happenings? And that's just at work. When I am at home, the television is blaring in the background, the microwave or jug/kettle is boiling, dinner to cook and if I'm surfing the net - then there goes most of the evening!

Take a look at your day and list the items that take up your time and prevents you from focusing on forming solutions or coming up with new ideas for a project - you might be suprised as to what you will find out.

Based on this article and after an assessment of my own daily rituals, I do agree that it certainly doesn't hurt to have some quiet time out. Lately I've been trying really hard to have a few quiet moments, so that I can think clearer and find some focus so that I can come up with more innovative ideas whether it is for work, our websites or projects we have in mind. I have been trying to implement the following:

1. Reading books - I do a lot of reading on the net each day, but I do remember how much I used to enjoy reading a novel. I find reading to be very relaxing. It provides me with much needed quiet time, helps me to unwind and think clearer so I can reflect on life and things in general. It also stimulates my imagination, which in turn helps me to think outside of the square. I have just finished a Jane Austen book and I am currently reading Charles Dickens's masterpiece "A Tale of Two Cities" (ok, this is a rather hard book to read, though once you get passed the first few chapters, it is pretty good and you learn a lot about how people used to live from 1775, especially in France and England).

Basically, find a hobby that you enjoy that helps you to achieve your own quiet tranquility and fosters your mind to be creative and active.

2. Turn off the television - For me anyway, television is a huge distraction, so I am trying hard to make sure that I do not watch too much of it. Lately, because I have been reading my novels, I've spent less time watching TV. Turning it off or just putting it on mute, provides the silence I need to think clearer.

3. Allocate time on the net - I know this is hard for a lot of us, but I think putting aside time one spends on-line is important. If we consciously do not do this, then like anything it becomes an addiction and we start to lose touch with the real world. I personally think the internet provides us with a lot of helpful and good resources. Information is at our finger tips. All I'm saying is that it's also important to find a balance.

4. Reduce mobile/cell phone usage - In the age of the mobile/cell phone technology, I know a lot of us spend time on the phone either talking, texting and now the ability to also surf the net. Again with this technology, balance is the key.

5. Emails - I enjoy reading personal e-mails, but these too are a real distraction. At the same time, work related e-mails can consume one's day especially when we all rely on it so much. I tend to create folders, so I separate work and personal e-mails from each other. When I need a sanity break I will open my personal e-mails. However, finding your own method to get on top of your e-mails is crucial, so that you do not spend the whole day sifting through them. I tend to assign a few hours in the morning to sort through them, that way I can focus on other things during the rest of the day. Like I said, I'm still working on it as my inbox is still very full!

6. Find quiet time - Honestly, just set aside some quiet time for yourself. It can be as little as 30 minutes each day. Try it out and see if it helps you relax and think clearer so that you can come up with more innovative and creative ideas.

Here's hoping that you may find silence to be golden for your life aswell...

Awesome article. Reading

Awesome article. Reading this made me think that you were writing about me. We all need to find time just for ourselves. This time is not just going to arrive on its own, we have to actively make time which we spend doing all those things that our busy lives have somehow taken away from us. In my case I definitely need to spend more time with my family and reading (books that is, not the Net). Thanks for reminding me of the importance of all this.

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Submitted by sailor (not verified) on 6 July, 2008 - 12:19.
Wonderful Post

I enjoyed your post and I agree with you completely. Three thoughts:
(1) The stress of dealing with throngs of followers all day long even took a toll on Christ. He needed "quiet time" every day to remain effective in his ministry. As a Christian, I believe that Christ was God. Now, if God-become-man needed quiet time every day to fulfill his mission, what does that say about the rest of us?
(2) Martin Luther said, "I have much to accomplish tomorrow; therefore I shall need to spend the first three hours of the day in prayer."
(3) Gandhi spent one day every week in total silence. He said as long as he was speaking to others he couldn't hear God speaking to him.
Keep up the good work. Maybe one day you'll tell us what you see up there in the sky.

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Submitted by JimR (not verified) on 8 July, 2008 - 00:31.
Over-dependence on technology

Post-modern philosophy in the recent years have all been focusing their ideas on society's over-dependence on technology. Our over-dependence not only affect our creativity, but also warp our very sense of reality. We start to become unable to tell the difference between digital reality and real life, and start losing our appreciation for things like nature and being together with friends and family over time. At the same time, we are being more susceptible to propaganda (commercial and the like), with targeted ads and whatnot. They point out to a lot of other things; I won't go details since this little comment box isn't gonna be enough. LOL.

With all that said though, I spend a lot of the time connected. With wi-fi on my phone, and free wi-fi throughout the public places in country I live in now, it's quite hard to be disconnected.

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Submitted by Ivy (not verified) on 8 July, 2008 - 07:44.
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Be still and quiet...

@sailor - I'm very glad to hear that you can really relate to this article. I do hope that you may also find more quiet time to catch up on reading those books :)

@JimR - Peace and tranquility certainly has a strong connection with spirituality and religion. Thanks for sharing with us these stories Jim. By the way, it's great to see that you now have your own blog! All the very best with your new site, I wish you much success.

@Ivy - I really enjoyed reading about the research study and findings you've outlined here, especially in terms of the over dependence on technology we are now experiencing throughout the world, it's certainly very thought provoking and profound.

These days, it is much harder to find quiet moments, particularly with the ease in accessibility to wireless networks and the numerous gadgets that are available for use.

Submitted by Marie on 8 July, 2008 - 10:44.
Ivy's comment made me think

Ivy makes a great point. Her comment made me think of something that Orson Welles said: "The absence of limitations is the enemy of art." I usually do my best work when I don't have everything I think I need to do the job.

Thanks for your moral support, Marie! I'm expecting big things from you and Simon.

Submitted by JimR (not verified) on 8 July, 2008 - 11:57.
so very true

I have been shutting my computer down when I finish my morning work on it and leaving it off through out the day. I turn it on for an hour in the evening and again back off. This has forced me to stop the constant email checks, stc. It is amazing how much more time I have now!

Submitted by Debbie Lane (not verified) on 9 July, 2008 - 09:46.
Silence...is precious!

Very good post.I totally agree!

Submitted by belinha (not verified) on 15 July, 2008 - 19:17.

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